Episode Twenty Seven

Someone Else's Divorce

July 11th 2013

  • Someone else's divorce

    by Sandie

    When you get involved with someone elses relationship, you always coming out looking bad. Whatever is said or did will come back to haunt you. Once the relationship rekindles you are on the hook for the…

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    Oct 14th

  • Girlfriend of man going through a divorce

    by Linda

    My boyfriend went through a contested divorce that got quite ugly. His not-so-soon-to-be ex-wife was an active addict, and he could not own up to his own enabling behaviors that contributed to their mess.…

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    Aug 8th

  • When children are involved....

    by Trent

    Being 24 myself and my sister being 20, you could certainly deduce that we are not merely 'children' - this leads to all kinds of issues. We have opinions, certain perceptions etc., that have gotten us…

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    Jul 19th

  • Adopted mother divorced 4 times and married 5times

    by FreL

    She chose poorly, I believe, to marry again a 5th time while still having a 10 year old and 18 year old in the house. But choosing a man, whom was stricken with symptoms of alcoholism? ( you know.. out…

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    Jul 17th

  • Listen to the judge!

    by Joan

    How ironic that this should be the current topic, since a couple that my family holds very dear has separated. I learned many years ago a similar lesson that Judge Judy's Mom experienced. Don't take sides,…

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    Jul 16th

  • Taking sides

    by JoAnne

    I do think that it's a shame that the people that you believe are your "friends" during a marriage are either "his friends" or "your friends". I was surprised at how few friends I really had after a divorce,…

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    Jul 16th

  • Other people's divorce

    by Jane

    Many years ago, the company my husband worked for was very prone to divorces. One couple had a lot of trouble and their marriage hit a snag that looked to be insurmountable. They split up and rounded…

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    Jul 15th

  • My naive twin

    by Ashley

    I'm a 28-year-old woman with a twin brother, and we couldn't be more opposite. My brother has always been very naive to the ways of the world and has no sense for when people are "bad news". He made the…

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    Jul 15th

  • Getting Involved In The Wrong Situation

    by Brittany

    I was only 18 when I got involved with a married man. They were having problems when I came into the picture. She filed before she knew about me and I ended up living with him for three years. He had…

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    Jul 15th

  • You Don't Know . . .

    by Nancy

    A much-loved cousin and his wife were divorcing after 20 years of marriage. Even though none of us had a strong relationship with his wife (she didn't try to be friendly to his relatives), we all decided…

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    Jul 14th

  • Involvement in divorce cost a friendship!

    by Craig

    My best friend's wife came to me with stories of her being abused. Day after day I heard terrible accounts of his cruelty towards her. One day, after months of living with his aggressive behavior, she…

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    Jul 14th

  • Someone else's divorce

    by Mary

    You are so right, never get involved because when they kiss and make up you are the bad guy! Another tidbit, never tell someone what you really think of their spouse...same result! Currently my daughter…

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    Jul 13th

  • Stay in your place!!!

    by Wanda

    I believe you can be a friend to both people in the divorce situation as long as you do not take sides. When I was divorced, my parents told my soon to be ex that he would always be their son and we were…

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    Jul 13th

  • Loving Care Helps a Troubled Couple

    by Mary-Alice

    Years ago, my dear friends were in a very rough patch. The husband had an affair and wanted out of the marriage. The wife was devastated. I loved them both. I wanted very much for them to work it out…

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    Jul 12th

  • Nightmare of helping a neighbor through a divorce

    by Denise

    A neighbor was married and had children, one stayed with me daily after school until bedtime. The mother was mentally unstable, willingly stayed at work in her office until bedtime just not to have to…

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    Jul 12th

  • Did I Hear That Correctly??

    by Kathy

    My sister and I (who live together) went to my brother's custody case for moral support and to be witnesses if needed. The case went back and forth like a tennis match. When the judge gave his ruling,…

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    Jul 11th

  • Three Friends Destroyed

    by Sharon

    I've witness many times when someone gives advice when they should just keep their mouth shut. I had a friend who's marriage was rocky and there was 3 of us who were inseparable. I'll use false names.…

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    Jul 11th

  • Woman left behind

    by Joan

    After my first husband left me for an older woman (I was 22 and devastated), a couple we had know during our marriage invited me over for dinner. While there the woman's husband (when she was in the kitchen)…

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    Jul 11th

  • When someone else gets involved in your marriage

    by Mary

    I'm not sure if anyone have ever experienced the following. After being married for twenty four years, unfortunately my marriage was ruined due to the above title. I had left the country to take my sick…

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    Jul 11th

  • Let Them Work It out by themselves

    by Debby

    I knew my best friend was getting divorced, oh she complained moaned and told me the horrors of why she wanted to be divorced. I only said to her, the best way is to write out the pros and cons and then…

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    Jul 11th


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