Episode Eighteen

Courting with Disaster

February 7th 2013

0.33 mins

An ugly truth about relationships is that the courting period is as good as it gets. Everyone is on their best behavior when they're dating. If there's some little quirk that you accept during this time, it often becomes unbearable over the years. Does her high-pitched laugh drive you nuts? Does he drone on about topics that are of no interest to you? How is your partner different from the person you fell in love with? What's your coping strategy? You must have stories. Anything to  share? 

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Judy says...

The courting period is as good as it gets; brace yourself for long-term commitment!

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